My First Sugar Daddy
What is a sugar daddy? Probably everyone knows the answer to this question. Here, I will tell you a story that happened when I was in my twenties, young, and inexperienced in life. I met a man that was willing to do anything for me, and I really enjoyed it.
How We Met
The story happened when I was twenty. I just started attending college, and I remember my parents being a bit short on cash. As with many other students, I had to find a way to lower the expenses, and I remember going to the store to buy ingredients for the week.
I froze at the cashier when I realized that I didn’t have enough money. Almost instantly, the gentleman behind me offered to pay the difference, and I tried to refuse the offer, but the line was only getting longer. So, I decided to accept the gift, and that’s how I met him. Now, before anyone starts assuming, I didn’t just throw myself into his arms and bang him out of gratitude.
Over the next couple of weeks, we continued bumping into each other since he lived near the apartment I was renting at the time. He was good-looking, polite, and obviously knew how to treat a lady, so I decided to accept his date invitation.
Our First Date
One of the things I should mention is that I love luxury. Does that make me a bad person? I don’t care. It is how it is. When we finally went on a date, it was incredible. He took me to a really expensive restaurant, the one I could never afford by myself.
He was the definition of a gentleman, and it really felt like a dream date. Not once did he try to touch me inappropriately or say anything bad. He really managed to make me feel good and confident. Something I never thought I’d experience in my life.
We talked for hours, ate incredible food, and laughed. At one point, he paid the bill and took me home. He said that he enjoyed our little date and how he hoped it would be something we could repeat in the future. He also mentioned how he really enjoyed spending time with me, and I, honestly, felt the same.
We continued going on dates and spending time together, and I felt like I was living in a fairy tale.
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He Made Me Feel Like a Virgin Again
One of the things I liked the most was how honest he was with me. He told me that he had been married, but it all fell apart. His wife was only in it for the money, and she tried to scam him (or something along those lines). Moreover, he said from the start that he is not looking for another wife and that he would love to enjoy his life for the first time ever.
On one of our many dates, I decided to try and take things a bit further. We went to his place after a night out, and we finally had sex. And it was unbelievable. I had a few boyfriends before, but I never felt anything like this. He made me feel like a virgin again.
Part of me was afraid that he would be rough and that all of it was just an act to get me in bed. But the entire situation was the opposite of what I was expecting. He focused on my needs and my pleasure and ensured that I felt good. I adored every second of it, and I realized why many girls were looking for older men.
I Want It, I Got It
As you can probably guess from the type of relationship I was in, he bought me everything I wanted. He was a sugar daddy for me. All I needed to do was point my finger, and it would be mine. He loved spending money on me, and I loved all the attention I was getting. The symbiosis was incredible.
Now, some people will always say that he was paying for sex, and it isn’t true. We had sex anyway. Believe it or not, girls like sex, too, especially if a guy knows what he’s doing. But he obviously loved having a chance to spoil someone.
After the trainwreck that was his ex-wife, he loved the fact that someone was happy near him and that he could make a girl feel like a princess. The majority of people believe that a girl will have sex with a guy just because he buys her stuff, but it is a lot more complex. He had money, and his bank account probably didn’t even suffer.
Needless to say, I wasn’t a little bitch running around asking for mansions and cars. I don’t need those things. The primary reason why I got into the relationship is that he made me feel nice. But I would be lying if I said that I didn’t enjoy getting new shoes, purses, jewelry, and so on.
It Was Fun While It Lasted
All things have an ending, and it was the same for our relationship. We didn’t have a big fight like some couples do, and there wasn’t a breaking point either. We just went our separate ways. He wanted to expand his business, which required him to move to another city.
It was too good of an option to miss. To avoid any awkward situation, I said that I didn’t plan on moving anytime soon (even if he didn’t ask me). For me, that wasn’t the option. Neither of us wanted a serious relationship, let alone marriage. So, when the time came, we had to say goodbyes and continue with our lives separately.
Do I Have Daddy Issues?
I don’t think so. People with daddy issues usually had some kind of a problem with their father. My father is the most loving person I have ever met, and he taught me so much. I love him with all my heart, and I had an amazing childhood. He and mom always did their best to make me happy and provide for the family. While we never had much, my sister and I were never hungry, always had clothes, a warm place to stay, and such.
So, no. I don’t think I have daddy issues. Do I like older men? 100% yes. It’s not even about money, position on the company, or something similar. It’s about confidence and experience. They don’t have time to play games with you. And it is something that I really adore.
Sometimes, I feel that guys my age are just looking to waste your time, lie, or just be insecure. I know that not all guys are like this. I’m not trying to generalize. It’s just that I was always attracted to older guys.
Of course, this was the perfect example of being a sugar baby, and I’m not the kind of person to look for a partner with deep pockets. It happened once, and after everything, I must say that I’m glad it did.
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